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"Helping With Forgiveness Decisions: A Practical Model for Counselors" - 61 spiral-bound pages. Now offered at the reduced rate of $6.00, plus $2.00 shipping and handling. (MN residents add 6.5% sales tax). Send check to Forgiveness Options, 1359 White Oak Drive, Chaska, MN, 55318 for your signed copy, choose the PayPal option, or click on the e-mail button. (I'm sorry, I can't offer refunds on returns).

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Each chapter is just one focused page long. Contents are as follows:
Dear Reader
Introduction
Intentional Limits
Chapter 1:..To Forgive Is To Accuse
Chapter 2:...Recognize The Offense
Chapter 3:...Identify the Nature Of The Offense
Chapter 4:...Blame is Not a Dirty Word
Chapter 5:...Validate
Chapter 6:...Counsel Caution
Chapter 7:...One Thing At A Time
Chapter 8:...Assess Your Client's Goals
Chapter 9:...Working Toward Reconciliation
Chapter 10:..Easing Conscience
Chapter 11:..Is It A Forgiveness Issue?
Chapter 12:..Reducing Anger And Resentment
Chapter 13:..An Eye For An Eye
Chapter 14:.."I Forgive You," Does Not Mean "You Are Forgiven."
Chapter 15:..Forgiveness Is An Attitude
Chapter 16:..Forgiveness Counseling Is An Enriching Process
Chapter 17:..The First Seven Stages
Chapter 18:..Stage Eight: Develop A Forgiveness Attitude
Chapter 19:..Forgiving The Big Things Seems Easier
Chapter 20:..The Case Against Forgiveness
Chapter 21:..The World Is Not Just
Chapter 22:..What About Forgiving Oneself?
Chapter 23:..What About Self?
Chapter 24:..Right Or Duty?
Chapter 25:..Is It True That A Woman Forgives; A Man Forgets?
Chapter 26: "What Can I Do?" Replaces "Why Did It Happen?
Chapter 27:..Forgiveness Decisions: A Reprise
APPENDIX
One-Liners
References And Annotated Bibliography
Some Useful Resources

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THESE COMMENTS CAN BE FOUND ON THE BACK COVER OF "HELPING WITH FORGIVENESS DECISIONS."
ABOUT WHEN TO FORGIVE (New Harbinger, 1999)
"This is the best, most thoroughly considered, most releasing book about forgiveness I've ever read. It is a gift for the heart and mind." (Audrey DeLaMartre, The Phoenix, November, 1999.)
"As a victim of homicide, I appreciate the author's in-depth analysis of forgiveness. So often forgiveness is used as a 'should" to silence victims. Mona's treatment of forgiveness, seeing it as a process, is most helpful and refreshing." (Wilma Derksen, author of "Have You Seen Candace?" and editor of "Pathways.")
"...Amazingly practical and insightful guidance." (James E. Dittes, professor of Pastoral Theology and Psychology, Yale University. Author of twelve books, including "Driven by Hope: Men and Meaning.")
"This book is remarkable in that it does not impart knowledge, but rather helps the reader tap into his/her own wisdom and integrity." (Mary Nicholas, LCSW, Ph.D., author of "The Mystery of Goodness and The Positive Moral Consequences of Psychotherapy.")
"An exceptional job of speaking to the deep transformative power of genuine forgiveness." (Mark Umbright, Ph.D. Director, Center for Restorative Justice and Mediation, University of Minnesota, author of "Victim Meets Offender: The impact of Restorative Justice and Mediation" and "Mediating Interpersonal Conflicts: A Pathway to Peace.")
ABOUT HELPING WITH FORGIVENESS DECISIONS (Manisses, 1998)
"It is evident that this book was written by a practitioner who communicates very effectively with both colleagues and clients." (A. Paul Olson, M. Div. Ph.D., Professor of Clinical Psychology, Minnesota School of Professional Psychology.)
"...an outstanding job distilling the most crucial aspects of a process called 'forgiveness.'" (Herbert H. Laube, Ph.D., Dean of Faculty, Alfred Adler Graduate School.)
ABOUT HELPING WITH FORGIVENESS DECISIONS (Forgiveness Options, 2001)
"...a masterful and thoughtful distillation and understanding of the personal and liberating process of forgiveness." (Nina Salveson, MA, PCC, CCF, President, Life Rhythms Inc., Minneapolis, MN.)

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Training workshops, keynotes, break-out sessions, or private meetings with small groups are available, tailored to the needs of your specific group.
Worksjp[ [articipants have made the following evaluative comments.
-----Thank you!
-----Presenter very respectful, knowledgeable - a true gem.
-----Practical nature, warmth of presenter, handouts-useful information.
-----Lots of interaction with presenter.
-----Presenter had a very nice, even balanced, manner.
-----Well-organized; knowledgeable on the subject.
-----Flexibility with agenda, encouragement to dialog.
-----Clarity, willingness of presenter to listen as well as present.
-----Solid topic, not discussed enough in clinical settings.
-----New ideas (e.g., to forgive is to accuse).
-----Appreciated the style of presentation.
-----Bring her again for longer.
-----Well done. I generally expect to fall asleep at these sessions. But such was not the case today. Interesting presentation with good variety.
-----Very well done.
-----One of the better conferences.
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